When you develop an infatuation for someone, be it love or hatred you always find a reason to believe that the person's words and actions to have a catastrophic impact on you. It will multiply, grow stronger, suck you in and force you to get addicted to it ways and make you its slave. It doesn't need to be a good reason. A snide remark or simply a hurtful word would suffice, for example. Now, in the long run, that's just the kind of dumb, irritating habit that would cause you to go crazy. But in the haze of infatuation, is what you feel real? Is the scar or mark that it leaves behind there or is it just a mental shadow that it casts to make you believe that it is there? You have to be strong, because whatever situation or feelings you develop is just a tiny fraction to what you perceived to be titanic.